Veronica L asked:




My friend did not see the signs of his cheating wife, the signs of infidelity. He said he wish he knew the signs so he could see it coming, “it might have saved our marriage”. Looking back now he can see that all the signs where there and when you add them up it was obvious she was cheating.

What are the infidelity warning signs and the unusual behavior you need to look for?

Work long hours – All of a sudden your wife or husband starts working longer hours. Maybe they have to take clients out to dinner when they never used to do that.

Distant – When your spouse is home, he/she seems distant, like there is something on their mind and when you ask about it, you get answers like “we just have a lot at work” but they do not want to talk to you about it. Your spouse seems restless?

Impatient – Is your partner a great parent but lately has been very impatient with both you and the kids. Small things boarder him/her that usually did not.

“I love you” – Did your spouse tell you she/he loved you all the time, called you to let you know, wrote you notes. But all of a sudden she/he signs the birthday card with just his/her name.

Get out of the house – Does your spouse take every chance to get out of the house? Take long walks, run errands or forgot something at work that she/he has to go back and get. If you mentioned that you are out of milk he rush to the store, and this did never happen before. She/He might be calling somebody she/he is not supposed to.

Intimacy – All of a sudden your passionate, emotional connection when you are intimate disappear. You feel no connection and your partner is just cold to you.

Eating habits – Is your spouse all of a sudden very careful with what she/he eats, your spouse wants to lose weight and even starts working out and exercise when that has never been a priority in their life.

Appearance – Your spouse is concerned how he/she looks. Dye his/her hair. Buy new clothes, when this was never important before.

Friends – Is there somebody a friend or co worker that your partner acts different around, like there is something between them. If you confront him/her, she/he will probably deny it. But that gut feeling, is a lot of time right.

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Shakirah Brown asked:




When it comes to relationships, most men have a tendency to lose interest awfully quick. Some may start to drift and invest most of their time in other activities (anything that doesn’t include you) and sometimes a man will stick around. You’ll get to be with him, just minus the spontaneous hugs and kisses. A lot of men view commitment to one woman as dreadful: seeing the same, old girl doing the same, dull, unexciting things. Why not hit him with some new and innovative gestures?

1. Fine, fine like a bottle of wine.

Is it your beloved’s birthday? If he enjoys a nice drink every now and then, present him with a bottle of what he likes (Hennessey, Remy Martin, Bacardi, Merlot.) A beverage he and his friends can get toasted off of when they celebrate.

2. The Love Letter.

Express your appreciation for him in a sweet poem or letter. Mention all the little, wonderful things about him that attracts you. Let him know the appealing things about him that he may not have noticed himself. Don’t forget to spray it with an intoxicating fragrance.

3. Music makes you lose control.

Burn a CD with all his favorite slow jams on it. Or put him up on certain songs or even a different genre of music that he wouldn’t have otherwise listened to. He’ll think of you every time he hears it.

4. Hey, Baby, what’s your sign?

Hit the bookstore or go online and print out a full and thorough description of his and your zodiac signs. Converse about the traits he has in common with his sign. See if the stars declare that you two are compatible.

5. Make it a Blockbuster night.

Have an all-night-long-movie fest! Sit through all the boring, gory, “action-packed” movies he loves to watch. Rent a documentary on his favorite actor or sports player.

6. Extreme make-over.

Help him to chill out and relax. Give him a facial. Pluck his brows. Give him a manicure. All your girly beauty secrets–give him the whole treatment. Make him feel like a king!

7. Microsoft PowerPoint.

Make your man a cute little slide show. Design each slide with sweet, endearing words; short little poems; and pictures. You can even add music to it, have it play your favorite song while he views it.

8. It’s in the game.

Grab some beers and pick up the other Play Station 2 controller. Let him teach you to play one of his video games that you previously had no interest in.

9. Back to school.

Colleges offer a lot of Continuing Education courses. Sign the two of you up for a single-session lecture at your nearest institution. Creative Writing, Public Speaking, Acting, CPR, etc. There’s an array of interesting classes to choose from and it won’t kill your funds.

10. Cook for him!

Swing by the Supermarket and get the ingredients to his favorite meal. Not sure how to make what he likes most? Stick to a dish everybody loves to eat: Lasagna. Spaghetti. Baked Ziti. He’ll love it, regardless!

These 10 tips may be simple, but the trick is to develop an element of surprise. Don’t mention anything, just bust out with it! The mystery behind the gesture is what intrigues him. Experiment with these ideas and come up with some of your own. The key is to have fun and use your imagination to keep him digging on you. True, a relationship requires a lot of maintenance; however, you’ve got to keep it fresh and sexy. Be unpredictable and exciting!

As Darius Lovehall states in the movie Love Jones, when couples say that the romance is gone, that’s not the case… “it’s because they’ve exhausted the possibilities.”

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Pete Koerner asked:




Relationship enhancement and awareness was a recent topic on the Mike and Juliet in the Morning Show; where relationship experts were asked to weigh-in on such questions as: “Is cheating normal in a committed relationship?” and, “Is flirting okay?” Other relationship issues, such as, “Why do traits and behaviors that were once considered ‘adorable’ become repulsive?” Understanding the answers to these questions can truly help you build a better and stronger relationship – and help you avoid the common pitfalls that cause most relationships to end in disaster.

Society is certainly not set-up to encourage committed, monogamous behavior in males. Culture objectifies women and encourages very “un-enlightened” behavior in men – and then teaches them to laugh about it rather than learn from it. Testament to this sad fact is the reality that more than half of all marriages end in divorce – roughly equivalent to the percentage of men who cheat on their wives. Certainly women cheat, too; but, historically, men are much more destructive to relationships than women. Of the less-than-half of all marriages that do remain intact, it is safe to say that they are not all blissful unions. Marriage, statistically speaking, is not a natural condition; mating is – which is ultimately why most people get married. Happy marriages are, without a doubt, one of the rarest birds on the planet. But why do men do the things they do to ruin relationships; and what can be done about it?

Basically, we all need some incentive to do anything we do. For a man to put real attention and energy into making a relationship better, he must have a reason for doing so. Men do the things they do for a number of reasons:

1. Programming from genetics and early examples from their fathers and other male family members,

2. Programming from friends, television, and other environmental sources,

3. Desire (Controlled or Uncontrolled),

4. Boredom,

5. Selfishness/Inconsideration,

6. Ignorance,

7. Malice,

8. Reward/Recognition,

9. Personal gain/greed,

10. Fear/Protection/Self-preservation

Certainly there are many other reasons for the way men behave; and not all male behavior is destructive or unproductive. But it is important to note that people only do what they know, and they always have some reason for doing it that overrides all others – and all reasons to not do it. The secret to making the most out of your relationships is to create a list of incentives for more constructive and productive behaviors – and then act on them. Fortunately, science and medicine – along with thousands of years of observation – has given us more than ample incentive for men to work on their relationships. Here are a few big ones:

1. Health: Happy relationships improve your health; unhappy relationships cause stress – which is responsible for most medical problems – including impotence.

2. Happiness: Would you rather be happy or unhappy? Would you rather be “right,” or “the boss;” or would you rather be happy and healthy? Do you really have to think about this?

3. Success and Prosperity: Happy people are much more creative and resourceful than unhappy people; they are also “luckier,” more energetic and positive, and more likely to attract better conditions and associations into their lives.

4. Economics: Though staying miserable to save some money is a stupid thing to do; relationship break-ups are costly – so is starting a new relationship. Child support and alimony – along with lost resources – are some other financial considerations that go along with ruined marriages.

Once you have an incentive, all you need is an idea of who you want to be and what kind of relationship you want to be in. Then take steps in that direction each day and with every opportunity you are given to move closer to your ideals, or further away from them. Admittedly, relationship mastery isn’t an easy task; but you don’t have to be a master to make your relationship better – you just have to want to, and to know that you can do it.

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Grant Dougan asked:




In about 50% of romantic relationships, one person cheats on the other. It’s a terrible reality, but sadly more and more relationships are finishing because of or due to cheating from one of the parties involved. If you wish to know how to catch an unfaithful mate, we will give you an easy way to detect if your significant other is messing around.

You will only need a few hours at the most. Let’s break it down into 3 steps in order to make it simple.

Stage #1:

Here is the trickiest step – you need to find a time in which you can get a hold of your partner’s cell phone for in around fifteen minutes without taking a chance of getting caught. Naturally you will want to pick a time in which they will not stroll in and find you looking over their cellphone.

You could wait for your partner to run out to the gym or jump in the shower – just make sure to pick a moment where you’ll have the cellphone alone for a bit. These were only a few ideas to think about..

Part #2:

Once you get the cellphone, find the list of calls made. You need to be able to see all of the incoming and outgoing calls that have occurred.

Pick up a sheet of paper and scribble down each phone number that you see on the call lists. This step will not take you much time to complete. Obviously place the cell back in the place you found it once you are finished.

Stage Three:

Now, this is the closing step and when you determine if anything fishy is happening in your marriage.

In this stage we’re going to learn precisely who your spouse has been chatting to so that you can figure out if there is a chance that you are being cheated on.

For you to discover precisely who the owner is of each of the phone numbers that you have written down, you’re going to need to use what is known as a reverse phone number search.

Simply by entering a telephone number, a reverse phone lookup will provide you with complete details about the owner any telephone. You will learn the individual’s name, address and even detailed background details.

You will need to use a reverse phone number lookup service to utilize this kind of search. They cost a couple dollars but it is quite cheap. For this step, since your paper will always have more than one phone number, you should locate a company that offers unlimited lookups for just a one-time fee. This lets you find out details on all the numbers on your paperwithout having to pay for each lookup.

You need to conduct a lookup on all the numbers that you wrote down. As you do this write out the info you learn for each one. When you have run a search for each telephone number, have a look at the results and look for any suspicious names or telephone call activity. You can be certain that anything suspect will stick out to you.

This is the simplest way to find out if your lover is cheating on you. It’s a fast and good means to get the answers you need.

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J. Lynn asked:




Many men will not believe this, but the fact of the matter is that women do cheat, and at about the same frequency as men do. They are just more discreet about it. Better at covering their tracks, you could say.

Here are some signs that your woman may be stepping out on you.

Your woman suddenly starts talking about someone – maybe an “old friend”, or someone she works with. But she’s vague about the details and doesn’t get too specific. This should get your guard up right away, as most women love detail and would love to fill you in. Her lack of desire in doing this is shady, at best. Consider her as being more evasive if she continues to keep the “friendship” on the down low, and keeps putting off introducing you to him.

Many women who are cheating will nag their husbands. Nagging helps her to feel less guilt, by allowing her to point out your many imperfections and even justify her actions. If she is becoming a shrew, and this is a new behavior for her, you might want to investigate further.

She may suddenly be going on a lot of shopping sprees. Yet when she comes home, hours later, she doesn’t have any purchases. She tells you she didn’t find anything she liked. But this is out of character for your woman, and you know it on some level.

Alternatively, where before she walked around with sweat pants and wasn’t too concerned about her appearance, all of a sudden she’s a fashion plate. She’s got a ton of new, sexy clothes that she’s wearing for someone. Just not you, unfortunately.

Along those same lines, all of a sudden she’s getting her hair done, she’s wearing makeup, she’s obviously trying to look good. Something may be up.

You check out her cell phone history, and there are numbers you don’t recognize that she has called repeatedly. You are even considering doing a reverse phone search, something you never would have considered previously. Doing a reverse phone lookup definitely seems like spying to you. But you need to know.

If your woman is starting to do some of the above, it is time for you to have a heart-to-heart talk with her. Maybe all she needs is more attention, or affection. Whatever it is, if you talk it over with her you have a shot at working it out. Give it a try; your relationship is worth it.

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Daryl Campbell asked:




After a lot of suspicions and unexplained changes in your marriage relationship, it has now become public knowledge that your spouse is cheating on you. The thing that every spouse fears has now become an unfortunate reality in your life.

At this point there is only one of two options open to you. Try and hang in there and save the marriage or end it altogether. Now you can expect to get a lot of advice from family and friends who will understandably try to influence your decision. But as you know in the final analysis the choice is yours and yours alone.

However there is something else that you may hear from your circle of family and friends which may surprise you; they told you so.

It’s hard to explain or understand but there is something inside many of us that wants to be proven right. Even circumstances that require diplomacy and tact don’t stand a chance against the uncontrollable urge to be vindicated.

What makes this phenomenon more unbearable when it concerns an extramarital affair is the amazing way many people knew what was going to happen before you did. From the first time you introduced your significant other to your family and friends so many of them knew you were in love with a natural born adulterer.

How’d they know? The way your spouse scratched their head while standing in the checkout line in the local supermarket, or the way they said “yes dear” to you while eating pasta at the family Christmas dinner.

Yes these are slight exaggerations but the point is to be on the alert. Discovering your spouse is cheating is a major burden to deal with so the last thing you really need to here is someone telling you how right they were. Maybe the people who say it really have your best interest at heart but in essence “I told you so” is nothing more than piling on to make you feel worse than you already do.

So how do you deal with it? Of course you can always tell them to mind their own business because they don’t have a clue as to what they’re talking about. As you can imagine this is going to cause a lot of problems. You could also decide to grin and bear it. You accept the fact that people need to have their say and you know your family and friends really do care about you.

But if they really do care than it is up to them to understand that critiquing your relationship is your job since you are the one who was actually involved. Therefore it is up to you to set the tone of the conversation. If you don’t want to talk about it then by all means let them know politely but firm. If you decide to talk about it then let them know you are not interested in I told you so. That’s not going to change anything and you can let them know (again polite but firm) that discussing it is only adding to your burden.

Most people mean well. It’s obvious that your family and friends care about you. That’s all the more reason they need to respect you and give you room. Finding out your spouse is cheating does not affect them more than you so take the lead when the conversation comes up and let them know the ground rules.

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Pearl White asked:




There are many of us who at one time or another, have felt or suspected a spouse of being unfaithful. They start staying out or working late. The suspicious phone calls. The faint order of a perfume or cologne that you are unfamiliar with. Suddenly takes interest in their appearance such as buying new clothes and being self conscious of their physical appearance.

We all know too well that if your spouse is being unfaithful, this could really be unpleasant if we found out from someone else! But, don’t just trust your instincts, there are many other signs of and unfaithful spouse that we could all look for.

One of the most common is that they change their normal routine all of sudden. When you try to communicate with them, they do not look you in the eye or are just not very talkative. They become very defensive when you ask them about their daily activities, acting as though they got caught with their hands in the cookie jar and start defending their actions.

On the flip side also, is there are some unfaithful spouses who seem to pay more attention to you. Helping more around the house all of sudden, seeming to take more interest in what your day was like. Just being more attentive then ever before. Usually, this signals guilt on their part.

If you suspect your spouse of being unfaithful, first just talk to them. Ask them to explain where they have been or maybe what is troubling them. Sometimes this will be enough to eventually help them tell the truth because of the shame or quilt they feel due to the affair.

But, it is very important that you do not accuse your spouse of cheating without gaining evidence and hiring investigators can be very expensive. But, there are other ways of catching your cheating spouse.

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Ruth Houston asked:




With infidelity and extramarital affairs at an all time high, more and more people with cheating mates are buying surveillance or spy equipment to find out the truth, get proof of infidelity, or catch the cheater in the act. If you suspect your spouse or significant other of cheating, you may be planning to purchase surveillance equipment such as:

Listening or recording devices to eavesdrop on the cheater’s conversations.Hidden cameras in all sizes and shapes, often disguised as common household items, to secretly view what the cheater is doing. GPS tracking devices to monitor where the cheater goes, or the location of the cheater’s car.Software or gadgets to install on the cheater’s computer to monitor their e-mails, Instant Messages, chats, or other online / internet activities.

What you may not realize is that by using surveillance equipment to spy on your cheating mate, you could be breaking the law.

Illegal Use of Surveillance Equipment

Buying this equipment is not illegal. But using it to spy on a cheating spouse could put you on the wrong side of the law. In your eagerness to get the good on your cheating mate, it may not occurred to you that there are laws governing the use of surveillance equipment to electronically eavesdrop or intercept the conversations, communications or activities of another person without their knowledge or consent.

Most states, as well as the federal government, have strict laws regarding where, when, how and under what circumstances surveillance equipment can be used. Even if you hire someone else, or persuade a friend or relative to use surveillance or spy equipment on your behalf, you could still be in violation of the law. In some states, both of you could be held liable.You should also bear in mind that illegally acquired evidence is inadmissible in a court of law.

Wiretapping Laws May Apply

State and federal wiretapping laws are generally understood to apply to both telephone and e-mail or computer communications; and include phone calls, text messages, e-mails, instant messages and chat room logs. Breaking these laws could result in stiff fines, imprisonment or both. So think before you act.

Disclaimers Make You Responsible

Most spy stores or web sites that sell surveillance or spy equipment post disclaimers which say that the products they sell are not to be used in an illegal manner. These disclaimers make it clear that it’s the buyer’s responsibility to determine the legal use of this equipment in the state where he or she resides.



Laws Differ in Each State

Laws vary from state to state. In New York State, for example, hacking or illegally tapping into someone’s computer account without their permission is a class E felony, punishable by up to 3 years in jail. In some states, if you hire, or attempt to hire a private investigator who uses illegal methods to spy on your cheating mate, you could be liable, too.

Other Illegal Ways People Spy on Their Mates

Pretexting is another illegal practice commonly used by infidelity victims to prove infidelity or to catch a cheating mate. Pretexting is pretending to be someone else in order to get personal or private information about another person. This includes calling a phone company under false pretenses to gain access to the cheater’s cell phone or telephone record; or calling hotels, banks, credit card companies or other establishments to obtain information about the cheater or his or her activities.

The Legal Way to Spy on Your Spouse

What, then, can you legally do if you suspect infidelity and want to get the goods on a cheating mate? How can you find out the truth without running afoul of the law? Cheaters ALWAYS leave telltale signs. Knowing what to look for is the key. As long as you know what to look for, it’s not necessary — nor is it advisable — to catch the cheater in the act. There’s no need to risk doing something illegal, when you can find out almost everything you want to know about the affair using your own eyes, your own ears, and your personal knowledge of your mate. But again, knowing what to look for is the key. In addition to knowing the common signs of infidelity, you need to know the subtle signs, as well.

Infidelity Book Helps You Spy Without Breaking the Law

Is He Cheating on You? — 829 Telltale Signs documents practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook. The signs are conveniently grouped into 21 major categories so you can easily find the signs that apply to your marriage or your mate. Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men. However, the e-book version, of Is He Cheating on You? sold through Booklocker.com, contains a special 10-page section for men with cheating wives or girlfriends entitled Is SHE Cheating?

If your spouse or significant other is cheating, once you know what to look for, you can find out almost anything you need to know about his or her affair including:

what type of affair it is (workplace, emotional, same-sex, cybersex, online or internet affair) what stage the affair is in how serious the affair is how big a threat the affair poses to your marriage or relationshipthe identity of the other woman or the other manwhen, where, or how often they meet — and more.

No cheating spouse will display every single sign of infidelity. And no two cheating mates will display exactly the same signs. So, KNOWING WHAT TO LOOK FOR IS THE KEY. If you know what to look for, you can even find information a private investigator would be hard-pressed to find without your help. And best of all, this method is discreet, inexpensive, accurate and 100% legal. For a FREE tip sheet describing the 21 categories of infidelity signs, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “infidelity categories ” in the subject line. In this day and age, you don’t have to be the last to know. And you can easily find out without breaking the law.

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Tina L. Jones asked:




Did you find out that he cheated on you? Are you unsure of whether or not the two of you can ever be the same again? Are you confused over whether or not you should put your faith in him again? Do you need to know whether or not he will do it again? Finding out that your boyfriend has been unfaithful is one of the hardest things you will go through. It can be downright devastating, and may be impossible to overcome. Yet, many women end up wondering if they will be happier letting go of the man that they are in love with, or trying to find a way to forgive him. If this sounds like the situation you are currently in, then this article is for you. Find out whether or not the fact that he cheated on you once means that he will do it again.

Find out where it all began.

The reasons that a man or woman cheats in a relationship can be as varied as the situations surrounding them. The first thing that you need to do is sit down and look realistically at your own situation. Although cheating is never the right answer, many people do it because they are feeling either insecure or unloved with the person that they are with. Depending on what stage the relationship is in, you may find that you are comfortable working on the problem and giving the relationship another try. This is especially true if it is in the early stages and you are both guilty of cheating on the other.

Recognize that not everyone wants to be faithful

Some men just can’t be faithful. Maybe they weren’t raised to practice monogamy or to respect women. Or maybe they have a deeper physiological problem that keeps them moving from woman to woman. Other men don’t want to be faithful, maybe for some of the same reasons, or simply because that is the lifestyle that they have chosen is best for them. If you get the sense that this is how your guy is, then you’d best be moving on because he is not likely to change.

Don’t ignore the warning signals.

Relationships are hard enough to navigate without having the added stress of having to deal with the fallout of infidelity. If he did it once, there’s a good chance that he will do it again, especially if you don’t try to discover the real problem. You have to learn how to break that cycle, and this can’t be done without being honest with yourself that he cheated and deciding if you are the type of person who can learn to live with that. If you think that you are, do something about it now. If not, move on to something better.

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Paul Davis asked:




It’s time for a paradigm shift

These unsettling thoughts let’s sift

Even if you feel like you want to quit

Don’t cave in and give up on it

As Nike says, “Just do it!”

Put your back into it

Press on ahead, you’ll get through it

Don’t let your mental model ruin it

Let’s get divine revelation and renew it

Renew the spirit of your mind just in time

Lest you be crippled without reason and rhyme

Crippled because of an outdated cerebral concept

Which it’s time we disregard and boldly reject

Yourself and your destiny you can no more neglect

A gross deception do I smell, discern, and detect

Your self-esteem and personhood we must erect

If necessary welcome the Spirit of God to resurrect

Hope, faith, and the fire of desire within your heart

Lest from the positive, good, and great you depart

Awake to how wonderful you are, a work of art

Brilliant, intelligent, intuitive, sensitive, and smart

This paralyzing stinking thinking let’s discard

A check up from the neck up will remove mental lard

The lapse and emotional lull that puts you in a hole

Reconnect with the Creator and now be made whole

It is time to take back what the devil from you stole

Put your game face on like it’s the Super Bowl

Break the cycle of defeat and pattern of paralysis

Get rid of lethargy and excessive mental analysis

Make a new model by which to meaningfully live

Cultivate intellectual discipline and prepare to give

Your all, your best, and settle for nothing less

Examine every set of assumptions and presumptions

Ponder upon and eliminate disempowering presuppositions

Prepare a straight path for your feet and determine to complete

That which you set your heart and mind to

Let nothing get in the way, nor discourage you

Overcome irregularities that seek to deter you

Deal swiftly with interruptions that seek to disrupt you

Fight for your focus before others engage and ensnare you

Formulate your priorities and values of viewing the world

When lacking direction and absolutes consult God’s Word

Beware of categorizing people and things prematurely

Question others opinions, beliefs, and view of reality

Build and lay a firm foundation for yourself mentally

Construct and reconstruct yourself when necessary

Be open to new paradigms and transformation

Commit to continual personal growth and maturation

Be patient with yourself realizing such is a process

Remember you can have more if you don’t settle for less

Your perceived reality is not necessarily your destiny

Believe for more and press into the unknown boldly

Turning your fantasy into reality by means of your imagery

Harnessing your imagination to provide inspiration

Decide and prefer motivation rather than intimidation

Celebrating others successes and rejoicing in competition

Never allow momentary mental hiccups to dwarf or diminish

Your personhood, identity, or ability to fulfill and finish

Your glorious dreams, deep desires, and great destiny

Never be stunned or stilled by inhalations temporary

Inhalation of frustration, intimidation, or any preoccupation

With your inability, insecurity, or insufficiency

Because when you believe in yourself wholeheartedly

Confidence overrides incompetence as you tap the subconscious

You shall lay hold of God’s spiritual omnipotence and omniscience

Therein you shall find and discover your own inherent brilliance

As with your Creator you co-create and become

That prized, special, and acclaimed someone

Distinctive, distinguished, purposeful, and polished

Seeming setbacks you shall arise and demolish

Temporary emotional declines you shall smash

Uplift and shake yourself from the dust and ash

Get dressed in your finest and forge ahead with force

The power of positive thinking my friend is no farce

Overthrow your miniscule mindset and it divorce

Believe in the new you and set yourself on a new course

To collide with the enemies of your soul and begin to roll

Roll out the red carpet of success and celebrate yourself

Rejoice, marvel, and glory in you like nobody else

You were created in God’s superb and marvelous image

Therefore lift up your head and get a victorious visage

No sir, this is no phony, futile, and infantile facade

This is the alteration you need from an awesome God

The change you need to win comes from deep within

This is not merely rhetoric or some cute verbiage and spin

It is a paradigm shift facilitating divine transformation

Removing all inferiority, isolation, and social alienation

Causing you to prosper and achieve personal maximization

As you connect with the Creator and live like a new creation.

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