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You Can Outsmart Your Cheating Lover and Discover What They Don’t Want You to Know

Sunday, February 28th, 2010 at 7:40 pm  
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Renee Jones asked:




Cheaters act and think differently. Some may think that they can get away with cheating and some are afraid of getting caught so therefore they try to hide their secret behavior. With most cases, a cheating partner will try to outsmart the person they are with and hide their secret behavior.

Well, the tables can be turned and easily too. Just because they think they can get away with cheating and try to pull tricks to cover up their tracks, doesn’t mean that you can’t find out what they are up to. You can outsmart them and find out what it is they are trying to hide or doing behind your back.

Some of the things that cheating lovers do to hide the fact that they are cheating includes erasing call logs, acting overly nice, coming up with excuses, washing their own laundry, and acting like everything is normal.

Some people can be getting cheated on and don’t realize it for the simple fact that they don’t realize that they are getting played. They don’t notice the signs of cheating or is not aware that their lover is displaying unusual behavior and acting secretly.

You do not have to be one of those people that are getting cheated on and don’t know it. You do not have to let your lover outsmart you by giving lame excuses and acting all innocent and nice. If you suspect that there might be something up with your lover and that they might be hiding something that they don’t want you to know, you can learn the truth.

You can easily find out what your lover is doing behind your back. One of the best ways to do this is by performing a reverse cell phone look up. Cheaters love cell phones because it’s a private way to communicate with their secret lover without you being aware of it. If you can get a hold of some of the numbers that your lover calls or takes calls from, you can perform a reverse phone look up and find out who the numbers belong to.

Learning details about who your lover is contact with is very useful. You get to learn the full name and address of who contacts your lover and you can use this information to investigate further, especially if you find out that the number belongs to someone of the opposite sex.

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What to Do If Your Partner is Cheating on You

Sunday, February 28th, 2010 at 2:50 pm  
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Although your very first instinct about being cheated on is to run a truck on the adulterers, there are things that if handled properly will benefit you, the infidelity victim ultimately. On the other hand, if you act on impulse and decided to have a emotional showdown with your spouse, you are actually sabotaging your chance of ever confirming the truth. Find out why here.

Don’t: Suffer in silence and try to put the pieces together inside your head with your guessings and imagination and pray that everything will go away the next morning.

Do: Take on an active role and start your own investigations to confirm your suspicion.

Don’t: Never confront your spouse about his/her infidelity unless you want to be told a lie and take it for the truth. Worse, you will only activate your spouse’s defense mechanism and awareness to be extra cautious.

Do: Know that your spouse will not tell you that he/she is cheating until it is proven so.

Don’t: Make unsupported accusation that can easily backfire as unreasonable and baseless.

Do: Gain proof of his/her cheating behind you and he/she will have no choice but to admit to the affair. Be in control of the situation and beat the urge to run away from confrontation for fear of confirming your suspicions.

Don’t: Get emotional and start a huge fight about your spouse’s infidelity even after he/she owned up to it. This is not helping the situation and will only push him/her further away from you and into the arms of the third person.

Do: Let your spouse know that you have gain evidence of his/her infidelity that will cause him/her to loss of custody of the children and and most joint possessions if he/she decided to proceed with a divorce.

The odds are on your side if you are a woman as men are not likely to give up their home and family to be with their mistresses. That is, if you still want to make the marriage work

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Telltale Signs of Infidelity in Wives – Clues She’s Cheating on You

Sunday, February 28th, 2010 at 1:48 am  
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Ending an Affair May Be Like Ending an Addiction

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 4:20 pm  
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Arron Y Bolton asked:




Having an affair can be similar to having an addiction. No matter how many times you tell yourself not to, you fall into the same situation. Infidelity is like any other addiction and once you realize that this isn’t what life should be, then you will decide to stop. Usually this realization comes way too late in the game. If you play, someone is always going to get hurt. Ending an affair can be one of the most difficult things you do especially if you are in love (or lust) with that person.

If you sitting here reading this and you’re the one who is having the affair, ask yourself: Is this affair really worth it? Are you in love with the person who you are have an affair with or are you just moving from person to person cheating on your spouse? Ask yourself – are there children involved? Is this affair worth destroying the lives of the ones around you?

The advice I want to give is that you have to make a choice. Choose to continue the affair which is completely unfair to the person your have the affair with or choose to end the affair and continue on with you life with your spouse. If you have strong feelings for the person in the affair, then I will be a hard choice. If you’re having small meaningless affairs just for the sex, then you have other problems that you need to fix in marriage counseling. With a lot of effort, you can save your marriage and the marriage may become stronger.

If you want to save your marriage and put a stop to the affair, ask yourself these questions:

Do you still have feelings for your spouse?
Do you want your marriage to continue?
Will you be committed to saving it if you decide to do it??

We all make mistakes. It is what happens next that will define the kind of person you are. Do you want to let this affair ruin your life and the lives of your children forever? It’s in your hands. Make the decision.

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3 Mind Blowing Tricks to Catch a Cheater – Bust Your Cheating Spouse in Just Seconds!

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 1:52 pm  
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Jim Campell asked:




So, you want to prove that your spouse is cheating on you. You suspect your partner of being unfaithful, but you don’t have any proof. You are just tired of having all these feeling of doubt and want to discover the truth once and for all.
Here are 3 proven ways to catch a cheating spouse:
Surprise them: so your partner is supposed to be in the office, working late. How about paying him a surprise visit? Never assume that they have told you the truth. Using work as an excuse to come home late is a very common tactic among cheaters. Use technology to your advantage: there are many devices and services you can use to catch an unfaithful spouse, such as: Reverse phone lookup: this service can provide you with information about the owner’s full name, their address and their relatives and neighbors. Key-logging software: you will be able to trace every keystroke that you mate types into the PC. This way you will be able to discover email passwords and find out everything there is to know about their online activities. GPS: installing a small GPS device will let you know your mate’s whereabouts at all times. Imagine the satisfaction of busting them on the spot, when he/she is supposed to be at the office, working late. Cell phone spy: many cheaters cover their tracks really well. This device will help you retrieve numbers and text messages that have been deleted from their mobile. Look for excessive spending: start checking the credit card statements for purchases of perfumes, expensive clothing, restaurant bills and hotel bills. Your partner will want to look good, so he/she will be buying things to wear around their new mate and they may be even be buying them gifts. Usually affairs cost money, so you will be seeing significant differences in their spending habits.

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Signs of a Cheater – Put an End to the Lies – How to Spot the Signs of a Cheater

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 12:06 pm  
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It’s amazing what lengths a cheating partner will go through to cover their tracks. That’s why it can be hard to get undeniable evidence. If you question them about their suspicious behavior they usually will try to flip the situation and make it seem like you’re insecure and just imagining things. This can leave you second guessing yourself and wondering if you’re just being paranoid. You need know what the signs of a cheater are so you find out the truth… even if the truth hurts.

Cheaters can be clever and manipulative but the longer they get away with their behavior, the more bold they often become… and the more they expose themselves to getting caught. Use the following list’ to quietly monitor your partner’s behavior. Try not to accuse them of cheating too soon or they will become more careful. You want to lure them into a false sense of security so they make a mistake you can catch.

Signs of a cheater:

Spending more and more time away.

Suspicious cellphone activity.

Suspicious internet activity.

Strange perfume or cologne smells.

Drastic change in their appearance.

Sudden change in sexual behavior.

Taking showers and doing laundry immediately after coming home.

Now it’s important to understand that any of these behaviors could very easily have a rational explanation. If your partner says they are working late, they may in fact be doing exactly that. That’s why it’s so important NOT to accuse your partner of cheating unless you have 100% undeniable evidence they can’t lie their way out of. Accusing them of cheating too soon will only make it harder to catch them later. Accusing them of cheating when they really are not will only hurt your relationship.

Look for these signs of a cheater and use your common sense and intuition wisely. If your common sense and intuition tell you that they’re probably cheating, then you need to take immediate action and come up with a plan to catch them red handed. You deserve to know the truth and have a normal life. Once you know the truth, you can take steps to fix the relationship or move on.

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The Cheating Husband: A Wife’s Guide

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 8:01 am  
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Kimberly Talley asked:




Your husband caught cheating is justifiably painful. But, most cheating husbands report that they never “planned” to cheat. Even more, most cheating husbands have no intention of leaving their wives.
Men, like children, want your regular attention. They want sex, they want to feel needed, and appreciated for their contributions.

This doesn’t mean it’s ever okay to cheat. Choosing infidelity has countless consequences, some seem unforgivable. So, a husband caught cheating on his wife is selfishly risking it all to have his needs met.

Infidelity is neither the wise or mature thing to do. Women know they don’t have to tolerate an affair, so a cheating husband has lots to loose by using infidelity as a fix to marriage troubles.

The bottom line?

Like most marriages, couples rarely pause to meet their partner’s needs, much less, even know what their spouse’s needs are. Many husbands don’t offer care, support, understanding, and love to their wives, and many wives don’t offer acceptance, appreciation, and regular sex to their husbands.

Yes, women need sex too, but men need it more intensely, to re-build testosterone levels, and feel like strong, able men. It’s an important part of marriage, it’s a time to connect with one another, and enjoy the pleasures of sex.

In short, during marriage, both people need to step-up to the plate to avoid a cheating spouse situation. You have needs that likely remain unmet, and so does your husband. Think back for a moment. Before the husband caught cheating crisis. Ask yourself:

Was my relationship strengthening to me? Did it feel good to be around my spouse? Did I look forward to our time together? Was his/her presence uplifting to me? Did my marriage feel satisfying to me? To my husband?

If you’re facing infidelity, the answers going through your heard are probably, “No….No…No…” The answer doesn’t always have to be yes. It’s true, even the strongest marriages face irritable and unloving times.

But, if you’re not feeling good about most of your marriage, then neither is your spouse. Add a lack of communication to the scene, a crisis, and daily fighting, and you’ve got a stage set up for infidelity.

Get some support. A husband caught cheating is a shocking and draining finding to sort through alone. As an expert Infidelity and Relationship Coach, contact me for support during this difficult time.

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Your Spouse’s Infidelity Revealed – Of Course You Are Angry and Scared – Part 1

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 4:58 am  
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Peggy Ferguson asked:




Infidelity can be a component of sexual addiction or relational event(s).

How To Find Out If Your Wife Or Husband Is Cheating On You

Saturday, February 27th, 2010 at 3:40 am  
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Juan Rodriguez Villa asked:




Is your wife or husband getting late at home lately, and you are suspicious about his/her behaviour?

Have you found a mysterious cell phone number on your wife/husband’s cell phone?

Is someone you don’t know calling on your husband/wife’s cell phone and you want to find out who the mysterious caller is?

Thanks to the latest technology and the Internet development, it is possible now to find out the identity of whatever cell phone number. Satellite communications, computers and the Internet are being used lately in order to help some “worried” people to find out “misterious callers”.

This technology is called “reverse phone lookup”, and there are several companies in the United States offering these services. But not only suspicious wives or husbands can be uncovered with this brand new technology, this can be also very useful in other cases, i.e. if your daughter or wife is being threatened with unidentified calls on her mobile phone.

The small fees these companies charge for their services are way worth it, because they will provide you with the peace of mind after you find out and locate the identity of the mysterious caller so you can take the needed measures to stop the problem that was disturbing you or your family. Nobody has the right to cause trouble or pain to your family, and now there is a possibility to stop these type of threatening by using this technology to identify and stop the person that is causing trouble to you or your family.

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The Best Way to Catch a Cheater

Friday, February 26th, 2010 at 4:35 pm  
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Ed Opperman asked:




Cheating spouses have been a problem for the faithfully married for almost as long as marriage has been a recognized union. In other words, cheating is an unfortunate reality for married couples, as it has always been. To further complicate this problem, over time, cheaters have become more adept at hiding their deceit, lies, and infidelity. As societies, and technologies, mature — cheaters learn from others past mistakes to help create for them an alternate life that is well-hidden from you, and from the rest of your world as a couple, for that matter.

The biggest problem spot for couples, in terms of infidelity, these days is the internet. However, many spouses mistakenly blame the internet for the downfall of their marriage, or the corruption of their spouse, and that is simply not the case. In many respects, the internet has replaced the bar scene, looking for prostitutes in the shadier parts of town, and the newsletter-like adult personals of years past. In other words — the internet is simply an easier-to-use tool for those who already had adulterous tendencies inside of them anyway. While cheaters like the internet because it gives them a sense of anonymity and an extra layer of security, using the internet is actually the best way to identify, and catch, a cheater.

Many people are misled about the true anonymity of the internet. In reality, most of your activities, and your spouse’s activities, are clearly visible online, so long as you have the right resources and the know-how to find this information. Maybe your spouse knows how to cover their tracks on their computer — they delete their emails, they clear their browsing history, and maybe they even scrub their hard-drive with data-shredding software on a regular basis to permanently remove all traces of their illicit activities. However, it’s in what they can’t do that can eventually lead to them being caught.

Any time that your spouse signs up on a website — a married-but-dating website, an adult chat service, a video cam website, or any other adult-oriented destination online, their information is stored on that website. What’s more, though, is that sometimes, these websites showcase profiles of their members — profiles that anybody can find, so long as they know what to look for, and how to look for them.

While you may not be able to find this information yourself, people who specialize in extramarital investigations online can. These online investigators can find your spouse online; they can identify which websites he or she is visiting, any profiles that he may have setup, and they can even communicate with your spouse, via an online profile, to obtain definitive proof that your spouse is, in fact, cheating on you.

While cheaters oftentimes find great comfort, albeit misplaced, in the fact that they can hide their online activity on their computers, the best way to catch a cheater is by utilizing the very source of their infidelity against them.

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